. One of the most ridiculous statements anyone can make is ” I don’t care what anybody thinks “. If you make that announcement, obviously you do because you are letting it be known. And if you want people to know, you care what they think. It is impossible to not care unless you are a hermit living in a cave or mountain alone. But as long as you interact with anyone, it does matter.
As a society we all have roles and how we approach them is what singles us out as individuals. Whether you blend in the crowd or stand alone as a rebel , it is all relative to the whole. And everything we do, such as haircut, how we dress and socialize is a reflection of who we are within that group.
However if you react to your group, society, workforce or even family as a rebel, their opinion has affected you. It doesn’t matter whether you are fighting against or fighting to leave, it still is the same fight, just different goals.
The true positive statement is to only care about the people who matter to you. Society really doesn’t care about you but the girl next door might. Your company doesn’t even know you exist, but your boss has a direct influence. Your family and close friends are important because they also are part of who you are on a personal level.
And by being who you truly are , to this close circle is what matters. While we are aware how we affect others, we should honestly care about those that matter. Once we realize that those who know and care for you not only accept who you are but welcome you in their lives, is when you can sincerely embrace your individuality and be the man you are capable of being.
Be The Man 