Your choice of words communicate a lot more than one realizes. While I have mentioned non verbal communication as a key part , the words you use can strengthen your message. That is why politicians have speech writers for emphasis on not just what they say but how it comes across.
Since the image we want to project is one of confidence and strength, our words should reinforce that. There cannot be any flexibility or doubt in any statement. Even if wrong we stand behind our words because we are confident in the decisions we make and can handle any consequences resulting. And the way we show how definite we are with our statements is by using that very word, ” definitely “. The word ” maybe ” does not exist in a strong confident mans vocabulary. We know exactly what we want.
Which is the next word I want to mention, ” exactly “. We are very precise with what we want, no waivering or settling for anything else. You will not be convinced of anything different than the exact object which you choose.
My other favorite word is “absolutely “. This carries a lot of power for numerous reasons. It’s root is absolute, which means the ultimate, supreme. This is a powerful word which only a powerful man can speak. Also it’s psychologically stronger, being multisyllable, unlike a common yes or no answer. As simple as that seems ” big ” words carry more weight.
Any little difference counts in distinguishing you from the average man. As a strong, powerful masculine adult everything you say and do influences and affects all who we interact with, and will leave a “definite” impression.
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BTW : These are just my 3 favorite words.
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