The most important quality of any man is confidence. You can buy an expensive car, wear a designer suit and invest in a great watch but if you are lacking self esteem, you just wasted your money. This is the key elements to all of your success . My main purpose for this blog is to create a better version of you, not change or teach you how to fake it with cheap lines or smoke and mirrors . But the foundation of all I share goes back to developing your confidence . By giving you the tools to improve your current situation , your confidence will grow because we are now aware of the areas that can benefit and are now the better because of this. All of our success , love, professional , social are byproducts , not goals. However, they can only be attained by improving ourselves and totally believing in the great person we truly are.
Yet, there still are guys in great shape, sharp dressers, and attractively groomed who still lack confidence . And there are out of shape, bland clothed men who get women and are still liked and respected. Is this totally against all I preach ? Absolutely not, this confirms what I say. But the better you present yourself, the better you feel , the easier it is to believe . These positive reinforcements will ; show others you are not plain , average, common, and more importantly show yourself that you have progressed , improved and upgraded. So in order to not only looking good, you must think good. When you walk, talk, think and act positively it conveys a stronger message than any words do.
But it isn’t always that easy. And even though you are doing all the right things ( like following this blog ) there may be that missing element . So smile, not faking but actually appreciate the man you are becoming . This not only shows the world you are living a good life but gives you that spike of positive energy. People respond to a smile, a good handshake, a kind word. Everyone likes to be treated well and you will now be the source. And as the environment around you improves, so does your quality of life , which is what success truly is.
Be The Man 