11/10/16

    As I have mentioned before, exercise provides a major boost to your image, mentally as well as physically. Your posture , energy and muscle tone improve . However there are limits to all our gains , determined mostly by genetics. But that doesn’t mean that the image we are creating stops there. Our attire greatly contribute to that visual, if used properly . We can greatly influence that look, positively as well as negative . 

   The key is to maximize our strengths, and minimize our weaknesses . So we must make sure that the eye is drawn to the body parts we want. And we then accentuate our masculinity .  

   The silhouette that is desired is the upside down triangle . Wide at the shoulders, sloping inwards to the waist. And that must also influence what we choose to wear. Fit is our # 1 priority ,  but the fit has to accentuate that look. We can’t have our clothes too tight because it will draw more attention to you fat areas or how thin you are. What I find just as bad or even worse is when men dress too big and loose. This gives no form so the heavy guy looks fatter and the thin guy is just a pencil neck and tiny wrists. The real crime goes to the guy in shape who loses that edge buried under fabric. He is now wasting his advantage by hiding a major weapon. 

   So you are now working out, eating properly but no visual changes. A jacket with shoulder pads raise the triangle on your body and also keeps the eyes up on that level. This not only widens your top but creates the illusion of difference between chest and waist. There is a term for this called the Adonis Golden Ratio .  According to this rule, your shoulders should be 1.6 times wider than the waist. So if your waist is 28, the shoulders should measure 45 in order to meet this ideal. This equation was developed by studying ancient statues, natural athletes and models, all based on the concept of most appealing to females. But you may never reach that goal, so by creating the illusion of strong wide shoulders and a slim solid waiste , you appear more Adonis like. And giving her this impression of athleticism masculinity will give you more of an advantage to conquer her.  Then she can find out what a great guy you are even if we are just as shallow as they are !