One of the key elements of any personal growth is not on the surface but how we feel internally. We can buy many great suits, expensive watches and drive luxurious cars , but these will always just be things that people notice, instead of you. The man must improve the same as the other outer parts of his life do. And the way this shows is in his attitude towards life. The calm confidence of Jason Statham ( I love those Transporter movies) in a tuxedo is the same when he wears a sweat shirt. You have to be comfortable in your own skin, no matter what is covering it. And that is all in your hands.
Once you start eating right and exercising, your body will respond by showing the desired look. This makes your clothes feel and look better. Now as you start adding new attire to this improved body people will begin to notice. Whether you get comments or just long curious looks, a change is happening. While they at first only see the external, the bigger change is within. You have now determined to improve yourself so your appearance is only part of this process. However the greatest improvement starts within. Just by making the decision to improve your health and appearance a change has occurred. But in order to succeed you must belive in yourself. As you continue to develop on the outside, you grow in confidence. So no matter who doubts or questions or even ridicules your appearance you must be strong willed. Those reactions are not only challenging you but also reflecting themselves.
You are no longer ” one of the guys ” . Women will no longer ignore you but will test you because you have now distanced yourself from the crowd. And that my friend is the true show of progress. When others recognize your new found prowess that is your new gauge. Every step you take to improve is a threat to all. Your buddies not only see you growing, they have to face their own weakness . Women notice longer have the upper hand any more because you are leveling the field. And once you flash the pearly white smile ( that I showed you how to get last post ) , you are now displaying more weapons. This is a totally different man than they have been accustomed to and as you continue to improve, so does the belief in yourself .
Be The Man 