Taking the first step is the hardest. We all know a change to this has been long due but there are usually two obstacles. One is the fear of change. Worrying about what people are going to think or if you can even pull it off yourself are common doubts. The most important element of this is your desire to break out of your funk and become the man you want to be. Most negative comments are people who are so used to seeing you bland and boring . However your greatest critics will be your own friends who are jealous now seeing you develop into a better man and they are stuck in the past. The other problem is not really knowing where to look for info on the changes you need. Having a big makeover is very difficult to maintain and even accept. So one step at a time is the best approach. Get a good $ haircut, and take care of your face. This is a quick easy upgrade that is easy to maintain. A good clean shave is always a good look but if you prefer facial hair keep it very manicured. This leave less room for error as it starts to grow out. Shaving exfoliates but a good soap or creme a few days a week keep dead skin off which keep skin healthy and less visible wrinkles. A big improvement will come when you moisturize. This gives a glow to your skin and hides all flaws. No big expensive products are needed, just be consistent. Sleep and drinking water will give your body the help it need to improve your face.

Exercise makes a quick easy improvement. Weight ( or any resistance ) help your image, which is muscles, posture, and energy. As your body improves it allows your clothes to look better on the new improved frame. All these changes create an upgraded image and activates a new confidence . Where you first had to convince yourself that these improvements might help,you now see how you feel, and the biggest feedback is how everyone else reacts. Guys are peeking envious glances at your rebirth and women will be looking at you in a whole different way.